In Japan, there was an elderly woman named Shigeko Shibata who began publishing her first poetry collection at the age of ninety-eight, titled “Life Never Gives Up.” It sold two million copies in Japan. At the age of one hundred, she always kept a mirror and lipstick by her side, dressed with care and elegance, […]
If you like someone, confess your feelings; if you want something, dare to dream big. If you haven’t been rejected by life yet, do you really think you’re a fairy? Speaking of which, I suddenly thought of T. He is not a fairy, but a very cute uncle. T’s cuteness lies in the unexpected. Once,
I’ve met many goddesses, but the most unforgettable one was a quirky girl, whom everyone called Miss Wei. At the end of April, Miss Wei bought two gardenia trees from an old woman. The old woman assured her repeatedly, “They will definitely bloom, they will definitely bloom!” Miss Wei waited and waited, from Labor Day
A powerful person has stable emotions and always remains calm and composed. How can this be achieved? First, you need to maintain an outward appearance of calmness. Even when you are criticized, blamed, or treated unfairly, being eager to defend yourself or becoming angry will only make you more passive. These extreme reactions indicate that
I’d like to share a particularly simple yet useful psychological healing method: constantly telling yourself that you are worthy, especially for women. As you reach middle age, it’s important to frequently say, “I love myself, I support every decision I make, and I like the way I look. Although I’m no longer young, my appearance
Let me tell you, the most powerful thing in this world is not money, but a counterintuitive psychology called reverse thinking. Those who master reverse thinking often reap unexpected rewards. If you can grasp it, it will allow you to see through the essence of all things and understand the hidden codes of thought behind
If you treat someone sincerely and they betray you, don’t be discouraged. You are the best thing that has ever happened to them. They betray you because they lack the fortune and the ability to perceive good things. Such a wonderful opportunity will not come again from the heavens, whether it’s friendship or love. So
Communication is very important. You need to learn to talk with him. Everyone can speak, but not many people are good at communication. You need to learn a technique called “advance desensitization.” What does this mean? It means saying things in advance. For example, if your husband is not coming home for dinner tonight, he
Never try to heal your partner. There is a very important principle in intimate relationships: the one who suffers changes. So let’s talk about relationships today. Many people may not understand, right? He causes me pain, why doesn’t he change? The answer is simple: because the one who suffers is you. He is not suffering,
